The Ubiquity of Loneliness

My last post about loneliness was met with a loud cry of solidarity. Which left me with the question: Why are so many people lonely? There are so many ways to connect. But we don’t. Not really anyway. We “like” what people are doing or we comment on...

Loneliness and the Lost Art of Friendship

Doug and I usually feel desperately alone. We work, a lot. 60 plus hours a week we’re at our store. Yet, we can still find time and move our schedules to try to make seeing people an option. Sometimes we make plans and it doesn’t work out and it sucks....

It Isn’t Easier: Part 2

It has been brought to my attention that my other post was dripping with something called, “white privilege”. As a person who has yet to experience any of the benefits of being rich and white, I have to argue that I’m not a recipient. Anyone who...

It Isn’t Easier

I saw this Post Secret postcard today.  Amid the chaos in the news and on Facebook and Twitter and every other social media I want to tell this girl, “It isn’t easier.” It isn’t any easier to be white than to be any other race. I am white....